I hate him now!!!I am a 15yr old singaporean he is 21.?
I like him at the first sight and the same goes to him.there is a problem between our age although i like him i just kept in my heart.i was shock tha the want my hp no. for 6month.i know that is because my mum tell me so by the way this guy is one of my mum colleague.i don’t why i hate him now,i think he is a prevent,predator he only call me when my mum is having a shift.there was time my mum lent my hp to him for a while and i don’t know that why my mum lent it to him!i dont know whether he is checking on my sms sort of things he send me a picture but i think that kinda rude!what do you think about this guy.can someone give my some comments on him?i am getting sad,mad and confuse.no silly answers pls
-sorry if i having problem with my grammer
-thank you for answering my question
First sight:: There is such thing as first sight. but there is no first sight love. only first sight like. like is having good impression about someone’s ability, appearance, gesture etc. Love is far more difficult to define.
But the best definition I have found is ::
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
(1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
So “like” and “love” are word with completely different meanings. you can’t be patient, kind or dishonor your ice-cream. so don’t say “i love ice-cream”, “i love books”. putting this aside…
MOST Guys and MOST girls in Singapore are more childish than decades ago. mainly because they do not go through tough lives. They eat well, play well, sleep well. etc. and parents are busy with their work etc. These parents do not really know how to bring up their children in this fast pace, highly “technologic”, materialistic country. (applicable to all materialistic countries). spending a large amount of time in playing arcade games, iphone games, games at internet shops etc is considered as wasting their time which can be used to do beneficial tasks.
So it is difficult to find someone who is mature around your age. Most 21 years old is still not mature in Singapore world.
Be smart but also be kind. so that you will not be hard-heartened and but kind, not easily deceived by cunning people. Divorce rate in Singapore is catching up with Americans and other countries with high divorce rate. because of the media like TV and movies deceiving us that casual sex and divorce are normal practice in their countries. Divorce is not an option. especially to those who keep improving in their communications skills and NEVER quit.
According to those info that you gave, this guy might be a possessive man. but i might be wrong. because he has intruded into your privacy. you might consider yourself as a victim of your mum who allowed outsider to use your mobile, and most intruder will read your sms, your friends contact numbers etc.
Look for those who are genuinely. these genuine people will treat you like the way they treat others, without any motive of wanting to be your boyfriend. because if they want to be your boyfriend, they will HIDE their weaknesses. only after he marries you, then he will show his true cunning colours.
Look for guys who are responsible in all he does. He will make apologies. he will change his weaknesses. he will etc… You can look for books written by “Edwin Louis Cole”. search google.